people are cruel. plain and simple. its said that within the first five seconds of meeting someone, you can descern enough of their character to see who they really are, and if you like them or not. but its not that easy, people can be deceptive. they change into someone their old self would never recgonise in a million years. everyone wants to fit in. its why we wear the ‘right’ clothes, say the things we say, and hold back the thoughts we maybe shouldnt be having.